They Had Big Plans for the Lockdown. This Is What Happened.


When New York immure b silence down this spring, Joe Harmer set his sights on a hobby.

He got a kayak. He secure a camera. He purchased a tablet-style computer on which to sketch. He even made a guitar.

But as the pandemic drags into its seventh month, all of the items are basically congress dust save for the new musical instrument.

“I was facing extreme isolation, and I didn’t in need of to have all that time and waste it,” said Mr. Harmer, 42, who assignments in sales for a tech company and splits his time between Brooklyn and Montauk. “But nothing remarkably stuck.”

As pandemic restrictions have slowly lifted, and the city ventures to recapture its pre-Covid former self, many New Yorkers are taking funds of how they have spent much of 2020.

For essential workers and many child who have been able to work from home, the days and weeks hold passed like a blur. For others, who have been fortunate satisfactorily to not be struggling financially, emptier days led to helping out at food banks, farm phone banks for political campaigns, demonstrating for racial justice, or if they be suffering with children, a crash course on home schooling. And for everyone, lockdowns take been about extra stress and being stuck around the descendants.

Some now realize that grand plans laid in March — to bake bread, sew veils, paint walls, read books, write songs, or grow tomatoes — foul have not quite come to pass.

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“Time has seemed to be on this slipstream, where factors are either moving very fast or very slowly, but nothing is Non-Standard real getting done,” said Anthony Bozza, 49, an author who has written publications about AC/DC, Eminem and other musical acts. “It’s been hard.”

In mid-March, after the closure of restaurants, benches, art museums, basketball arenas, concert halls, art galleries and gyms, Mr. Bozza, predilection others who were able to continue working from home, initially regard blessed with loads of free time.

Bucket-list ideas in a flash seemed possible, like watching every “Star Wars” moving picture in chronological order, said Mr. Bozza, who shares a Williamsburg loft with a Pomeranian-Pit bull mixed-breed dog.

He also foresaw to finally plow through a stack of musical biographies sitting next to his bed. But as existence slogged on, Mr. Bozza, who could no longer rely on takeout, found himself cooking three goes a day, which sucked up huge chunks of time.

As a result, stories nearly the Smiths, Bauhaus and Jay-Z remain untouched. “After a while the instruments that you don’t do start mocking you,” he said, “so I put the books away.”

But those who desist from their quarantine dreams should not succumb to regret, as even in routine times, to-do lists can be futile, according to Timothy Pychyl, a professor at Carleton University in Ottawa who has transcribed books dealing with procrastination. “You can’t really motivate yourself that way,” he weighted.

“When we all of a sudden have more time, we sort of wrongly take that it will solve the problem of fulfilling our desires. But it really isn’t an subject of time at all,” Mr. Pychyl said. “We never had firm intentions before. They are upstanding desires, like to fix up the basement or lose some weight. Had they been intents, we would have been doing them a long time ago.”

Of assuredly, the pandemic, which as of late September had claimed 200,000 lives in the Allied States, nearly 24,000 of them in New York City, has hardly been an unremarkable time to pursue a self-betterment agenda. The lack of a vaccine, steep job losses and worst business closures have created a grim tableau against which to fittings any goals.

Indeed, the inability to follow through on plans, or even hew out time for them in the first place, stems in part from off-the-charts ties of anxiety, said Dr. Charles R. Marmar, the chair of psychiatry at N.Y.U. Langone Salubriousness.

Cabin fever has in many instances morphed into depression, and in some height cases, post-traumatic stress disorder, especially for those who have departed friends or family members, or battled the coronavirus themselves, said Dr. Marmar, who was himself sickened by the virus.

And PTSD can greatly handicap with concentration, making it almost impossible to retain information and learn, he phrased. On top of that, some cooped-up New Yorkers might not have anticipated the duration and painfulness of the crisis.

“It was completely reasonable in March to think, ‘I’m going to make lemonade from lemons. I’m universal to be locked down for a month or two here, so I will treat it as a mini-vacation. I intent read every volume of “Harry Potter” because I have not at any time had the time to read all eight volumes of “Harry Potter,” and by the time I father read all eight volumes, I will be back to dancing at Lincoln Center.”

“Sumptuously, maybe that will happen in 2022,” said Dr. Marmar, who united, “there is no question that prolonged self-quarantine has been very naughty.”

For Mr. Harmer, the guitarist, learning an instrument has been a smooth fit with his quarantine, which has been discharge at his mobile home in Montauk. Twice a week, he has logged on for lessons with Manhattan-based Rivington Guitars and now has a fair rendition of Tom Petty’s “Free Fallin’” to show for it.

“It’s not like I was looking to be a kayaker my intact life, so that didn’t stick,” said Mr. Harmer, who added that a sister sought her hand at baking sourdough bread before being overwhelmed with derivation duties. “Bread-baking and things like that are more fads.”

But philander guitar, which he also tried years ago, he said, was more foreordained to become a pastime.


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Melodies have not come easy for everybody. Dava Nasr, a skilful musician whose credits include a heavy metal band, Hero & Dagger, has felt comparatively blocked.

Envisioning days curled up in her Farther down East Side co-op writing songs with a Gibson guitar and a crystal of whiskey, Ms. Nasr, 60, instead found herself consumed by firms about the pandemic. Also shunted aside were plans to learn Greek. “I didn’t find the demand I had in my head,” she said.

Panicked over possible food lacks, Ms. Nasr, a vegan, then tried to become an at-home gardener, albeit the presence of bugs on her vegetable plants almost spelled the end of those arrangements, too.

“I saw these yellow ladybugs and I thought, ‘Wow they’re so cute,’ and then I looked them up, and I tinge, ‘Oh no! Those are cucumber beetles,’ ” Ms. Nasr said, adding that horned caterpillars were “one of the sundry of horrifying things I have ever seen.”

Frantic three-times-a-week call ins to her coach, East Harlem’s Urban Garden Center, helped reveal many crises, she said. And in fact, her crops, including kale, broccoli and squash, ultimately outgrew their pots and were transferred to the roof.

“But it was still an “Alice in Wonderland” galivant that was not always pleasant,” Ms. Nasr said. “And frankly, gardening is pacify really not me.”


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Also eyeing a new terminology was Antonio Kallo, 19, a student at Saint Francis College in Brooklyn, who was nonplused in a Bay Ridge rental after March. But his efforts to learn Chinese didn’t get far.

“I bear like everything around me was going in completely different directions,” Mr. Kallo divulged. “New York got hit, then all you would see on social media was fights about covers, crazy things about hoaxes created by the government. Seeing all that and exasperating to focus in on one thing was just too hard.”

His months inside, though, haven’t been fully unproductive. With help from his parents, Mr. Kallo bought a tacking machine, a trendy stay-at-home appliance.

Indeed, Sewmark Sewing Rings, a store in the garment district, sold three times more instruments this spring than a year earlier. Karen Lozner, 51, the topple over of the Karen School of Fashion, noticed in March that fueled by fears of a deficit of masks, people began signing up to learn how to make them. And some, congenial Mr. Kallo, she said, “are staying with it. While they’re not working, they depend on it might be nice to learn how to fix their pants.”

Or maybe, to expand their waistband for the remarkably “quarantine 15” pounds that some have packed on notwithstanding early stabs at exercise.

In April, interest for yoga classes flowed, with about a third of sign-ups being first-timers, said Tori Milner, 48, an pedagogue at the Iyengar Yoga Association of Greater New York, which went online after mingy its Manhattan and Brooklyn studios.

But by May, there were fewer people stretching in look of their webcams. “I think there is such a thing as Zoom tiredness,” Ms. Milner said. “We’ve been Zooming everything: work and family and kids’ guidance, which is I think why we’ve seen a leveling out over time.”


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In addition, if families have precisely a couple laptops, it might be hard to grab one to perform a downward-facing dog, bring up Teri Gandy-Richardson, the owner of Park Slope Yoga Center, which is sacrifice 24 classes, down from 30 at the beginning of the pandemic.

Moreover, “the intensity of having everybody functioning in the same time in a small apartment interruption, it’s very distracting, and a lot to work around,” said Ms. Gandy-Richardson, who in addition to urge a yoga broadcast studio into the bedroom of her Flatbush apartment, has also been helping the unit with her partner and his 18-year-old son.

Ms. Gandy-Richardson, an artist who works with denim, has had all but no bandwidth for her own projects. “Time has become a really mushy, liquidy happenings c belongings,” she said. “Things that took a couple of hours then started captivating a day or two, and all of a sudden, a week or two was passing by at a clip.”

Along the same lines, Andrew Crooks, the president of the bike hold NYC Velo and an avid cyclist, typically logs about 2,000 miles from January to August. But in the pandemic, he survived only 200 miles in the same time frame.

Helping his lads, ages 7 and 9, with remote learning and caring for them exceeding the summer took up much more time than expected, suggested Mr. Crooks, a Brooklyn resident. His wife has been at work as a school superintendent, but as a store owner, he has been able to work from home.

Being powerless to indulge his cycling passion “has been a disappointment,” he said. But “it’s far more notable for me to take care of my family and ensure that my employees are healthy.”

Other cyclists puissance also have changed their priorities. When the pandemic offed, Mr. Crooks’ stores saw a spike in customers, at least among those who spin a delude for fun. But by May, far fewer riders came through the door.

Still, once the pandemic eases its sovereignty, he expects some would-be hobbyists to come back. “At the end of all this,” Mr. Crooks suggested, “I think there will be more bikes around than continually before.”

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