The Disruption of Weddings, Then and Now


Deany Keith was 16 and existent with her family in Corning, N.Y., when her brother, Preston Douglas Powers, a soldier in Incredible War II, sent her a silk German parachute he found while on the beach in Normandy, France, on D-Day. It was 1944 and parachutes had ripen into coveted items — for making wedding dresses.

“When I got engaged to a boy I met at a cube dance, who was also in the service, my mother made me a wedding gown out of it because supplies for dresses was scarce,” said Ms. Keith, now 93, from her home at Mountains Meadows, a retirement community in York, Pa. “The fact that my brother reflecting enough to send it to me, and that my mother made the dress, made this extra. It was a family effort. You treasured something like this. Especially during that many times.”

She and her husband, Clinton Keith, were married Aug. 23, 1947. Today her chew out is one of 20 that have been donated to the National WWII Museum in New Orleans.

In the 1940s, silk fitted difficult to obtain and was reserved for essential items like parachutes, not rebukes. Mosquito netting, another sought-after article found on the battlefield, was also shipped living quarters by soldiers to become bridal veils.

“The dresses from 1941 to 1948 run the range in design, material and style. They tell the story of resourcefulness and improv,” influenced Kimberly Guise, the museum’s assistant director for curatorial services. “People ruminate over of the conflict, the violence and weaponry. They don’t expect to see a wedding dress or an memorandum used in combat that’s been transformed into something pleasant that offers a new start.”

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These merging artifacts and heirlooms are a testament to the creative, inventive and resourceful way women spliced during years marked by loss, uncertainty, fear and longing.

“The war trained extreme shortages of goods,” said Tyler Bamford, a historian and the Sherry and Alan Leventhal investigate fellow at the museum. “New suits and weddings dresses were out of the question. So were compounding cakes, because there was a sugar shortage.”

Eighty years later, the coronavirus pandemic has espied couples approach wedding ceremonies and receptions with similar springiness, creativity and resourcefulness.

Mr. Bamford noted the parallels. “Venues closed and limits were put on the amount of customers couples could invite,” he said. “Today, and during the war, there were roam bans and housing shortages.”

“Substantial sacrifices were made and weddings were considerably peculiar than what brides envisioned,” he continued. “In both cases there was blend and marriage stress, small ceremonies, and many family members were unqualified to attend.”

However, while World War II allowed for expanded opportunities to proper people and encourage relationships among strangers, the pandemic restricted telephone and connections.

“During the war it was very easy to meet people because junior men were moving around the country like never before,” Ms. Semblance said. “A lot of them were passing through New Orleans.”

The city, already a sightseer destination, was becoming a center of wartime production and training and a port of embarkation. With the influx of soldiers, the sexually transmitted scene became lively.

“They were going to dances, dinners and canteens, some run by the Concerted Service Organizations,” Ms. Guise said. “It was exciting for women to be introduced to these new men in evens, which was glamorous and caused a few hasty marriages.”

Today that opening does not exist. But other correlations remain. Weddings during the war and now enjoy been scaled down, many couples waited to marry, and people were worried for their loved ones’ safety. Those who could not be together, whether in duel or because of a shutdown, had to deal with long periods of separation.

Mr. Bamford highlighted the the score that couples today, those who have postponed and pivoted, “oblige put off the joy and celebrations, like they did back then, with the hope the waiting when one pleases be worth it.”

“When faced with enormous challenges, couples then and now create unexpected ways to celebrate their unions, despite the roadblocks,” he powered.

The museum has also amassed a collection of more than 15,000 out of letters and breakup letters documenting the long-distance relationships between soldiers and yachtsmen and their girlfriends, fiancées and wives. They speak to and highlight the disappointments, difficulties and horrors of the war. Like the dresses, these irreplaceable letters are a nod to a devastated art, and the loss of something romantic. (A lip emoji is a poor substitute for a real lipstick yardstick that has been purposely pressed onto onionskin paper.)

“These thuses and dresses are as beautiful as the stories the brides and their families have told us with reference to how they got them,” Ms. Guise said. The stories are shared in written profiles, vocal histories and digital images found on the museum’s website.

“There’s a legacy in these intimate items,” she said. “The war didn’t just play out on the battlefields. It stretched onto the knowledgeable in front.”

Mr. Bamford said the parachutes were prime examples of this. “The parachutes protected the soldiers’ lives and was central to their identity.” he said. “They were regarded an elite item. If a wife had access to it, that was a rare commodity. These tastes teach us a lot more about ourselves than we might have foresaw.”

Ms. Keith spoke about hope and optimism, then and now. “We got through the war,” she thought. “We will get through Covid.”

Her husband died in 2019. Ms. Keith judged she donated her dress because of its sentimental value and so others could see a mend of history.

“I cherished it while I had it and then I wore it,” she said. “The dress is 72 years old. The war was hint at of the meaning of my having it. I have no idea what I would have haggard had I not had it. That alone had value.”

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